Signs Of Infidelity - Are You Just Being Paranoid?

You probably are stuck between a rock and a hard place right now. You suspect what you see as signs of infidelity, but then convince yourself you are just being paranoid. This leaves you torn up emotionally and at a loss for what to do next. Unfortunately, if you are sensing something is different about your significant other, there is likely something going on. Whether it is an affair or not, that is another thing. Here are some key signs of infidelity that can help you determine if you are living with a cheater.

Cell Phone Disappearing Act

One of the signs of infidelity focuses around their cell phone. With almost everyone using cell phones these days, it might be your significant other's only communication link to a secret lover. The last thing they want to do is leave it sitting around for you to get your hands on. A few indicators to watch for include:

cell phone is always on vibrate or silent mode cell phone never leaves their side they constantly delete their text messages and incoming/outgoing calls when they use their cell phone in your presence, they go to another room, speak in hushed tones, and keep conversations short increase their minutes on their cell phone plan when you call their cell phone, they do not answer, but shortly after TEXT you asking why you called

It is going to be tough to get hold of their cell phone, but if you can, you might discover that they are spending a lot of time calling a specific number.

All In A Days Work

Another one of the signs of infidelity concerns their work. There are many instances that cheating involves a co-worker. It is likely they are spending more time with some co-workers than they are with you, and this can lead to spending more time after work. If your significant other is cheating on you, these are a few signs of infidelity related to their work:

excuses that they have to stay late at work to do a project when you call them at work, they do not answer anymore they go in to work earlier than they used to when they get home they immediately head for the shower a "promotion" puts them on an extended schedule or new hours

Keep tabs on their work situation as best you can, which might included dropping in to see them with a surprise lunch or dinner, or talking with their co-workers. If they know you are keeping in touch, they know they are going to have less a chance of getting away with cheating. Along with these two potentially glaring signs of infidelity, there are a number of other red flags to be looking for, and can be read about on my website.

So you decide. Are you just being paranoid, or are the signs of infidelity there and this is the real deal? Intuition and gut feelings are somethings you should never ignore. Most of the time, they are dead on the money.

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